RAMBLE: More Than a Number on a Scale

SOURCE:  WKBT website

October is National Bullying Prevention Month.  While every month seems to hold great importance towards the prevention or awareness of some worthy cause, bullying is a topic of much national discussion.  No longer is bullying reserved for kids on the school yard.  Bullying has transcended to college, the work place, and especially online.

Just recently, WKBT News 8 This Morning anchor Jennifer Livingston bravely went on camera to address an email she received from a viewer.  In the email, viewer Kenneth Krause writes:

"Hi Jennifer, It's unusual that I see your morning show, but I did so for a very short time today.  I was surprised indeed to witness that your physical condition hasn't improved for many years.  Surely you don't consider yourself a suitable example for this community's young people, girls in particular.

Obesity is one of the worst choices a person can make and one of the most dangerous habits to maintain.  I leave you this note hoping that you'll reconsider your responsibility as a local public personality to present and promote a healthy lifestyle."

Rather than allow these words to get to her or merely brush these words off from an obviously rude viewer, Ms. Livingston decided to publicly call him out by addressing his email on air.  The video is below:

 

Hooray Jennifer!  Hooray for your bravery!  Hooray for standing up for yourself!  Hooray for believing in yourself!  Hooray for knowing who you are!  My favorite part of this video is when she said:

"You don't know me.  You are not a friend of mine.  You are not a part of my family.  And you have admitted that you don't watch this show.  So you know nothing about me but what you see on the outside.  And I am much more than a number on the scale."

We are ALL much more than a number on the scale and for Mr. Krause to believe that she owes the public a slim figure (after three children) at all times is ludicrous.  I doubt that Mr. Krause feels that he should be defined by his weight, so why expect the same from Ms. Livingston?  He is the one that is perpetuating our society's warped beliefs that you have to be thin in order to find happiness.  It's hurtful remarks like these, which are masked as pieces of advice and help, that cause many to forget that what you are inside is truly beautiful, remarkable, and powerful.

Mr. Krause, you are a bully.  Your remarks, regardless of your offer to help Ms. Livingston, were intended to be hurtful.  Your remarks and response to Ms. Livingston's video indicate your insecurities and weaknesses.  Mind your own life before taking jabs at someone else, especially one that you know nothing about.